What a packed day it was! Moved around the city from one shop to the next, from one mall to the other, shopping like crazy. Yes, that is part of the Big Fat Indian Weddings. Wedding Ceremonies in India and esp. in North India are more of a Show-Shaa than anything else. Parents spend all their booty on feeding hundreds of hungry relatives who will do nothing but criticize the arrangements, the catering and even the Venue. There is a whole lot of "Auntyjees" whose only goal of coming to a wedding party is to check out the Outfit and accessories of other ladies and more so the Bride. And as if all this was not enough, if the wedding that they are into is by Chance a Love Marriage, God save the poor Bride and Groom. If anyone asked me, I would settle down into a marriage by signing off few papers in the presence of my closest family members.
Well anyways, Divya has finally found her Man and is getting married in a week and we went shopping for her.For once, I forgot it is Divya's wedding not mine. I bought perfumes and accessories worth half my month's salary and now I am feeling like a stupid moron for wasting my hard earned money.
I don't know how would have I survived the toughest times of my life without her. How would have I managed to live away from home without the constant support, love, warmth and care that she had to offer. No matter how terribly wrong things were, she always stood beside me and said,"Megha, you are the best and deserve nothing but the Best. Have Patience, the best is yet to come." She has this bundle of confidence in me, that I too begin to lack sometimes and then she comes around and strengthens me, lifts me up and brings back my Mojo. That is what Friends are for, but she sure is way above all the others. My heart goes out to Wish her all the happiness on this planet. Oh Dear Lord, bring her only happiness and smiles. May she be blessed with the strongest bond of marriage and all her dreams come true, all that she aspires and all that she hopes out of this new relationship come true. Lots of Love to my sweetheart.
I can only try to imagine how would my life change post her wedding. No matter what promises we make, I know things change, priorities get altered, focus shifts and yes it should. So I am apprehensive of what will happen to all that masti time with her that we had as SINGLES, those ACTIVA-RIDES, movies, shopping and crazy little things without which my life in Delhi would have been tasteless and stagnant.
Again, I am back to the same option left, Wait and Watch what is in store.. :) :) So when our shopping was finally over and I pacified the hunger of my stomach that could devour even a Human had I not got food then,I bid bye to meet her next on her Sangeet Ceremony. She could sense the apprehension in my eyes and I felt like holding her and weeping like a child who longs for that favorite toy but doesn't know if it will get it or not. I wanted to pour out my heart, I am strong filled with patience. I know it will all be fine in the end. But I want all those good things to happen now.
She only said, "Enjoy this time as long as it lasts, bells are going to ring soon.Those who chose to leave were fools for they know not what a precious jewel they have lost".. Ahhh!! I don't know sweetheart if I am really that good or it is only your biased love for me that is talking.. :) :)
Whatever it is, I am super excited for the Sangeet and the Wedding for I get to adorn ethnics that I rarely wear otherwise..
Photographs and details to follow soon.....
With Love,
Megha S.
Well anyways, Divya has finally found her Man and is getting married in a week and we went shopping for her.For once, I forgot it is Divya's wedding not mine. I bought perfumes and accessories worth half my month's salary and now I am feeling like a stupid moron for wasting my hard earned money.
I don't know how would have I survived the toughest times of my life without her. How would have I managed to live away from home without the constant support, love, warmth and care that she had to offer. No matter how terribly wrong things were, she always stood beside me and said,"Megha, you are the best and deserve nothing but the Best. Have Patience, the best is yet to come." She has this bundle of confidence in me, that I too begin to lack sometimes and then she comes around and strengthens me, lifts me up and brings back my Mojo. That is what Friends are for, but she sure is way above all the others. My heart goes out to Wish her all the happiness on this planet. Oh Dear Lord, bring her only happiness and smiles. May she be blessed with the strongest bond of marriage and all her dreams come true, all that she aspires and all that she hopes out of this new relationship come true. Lots of Love to my sweetheart.
I can only try to imagine how would my life change post her wedding. No matter what promises we make, I know things change, priorities get altered, focus shifts and yes it should. So I am apprehensive of what will happen to all that masti time with her that we had as SINGLES, those ACTIVA-RIDES, movies, shopping and crazy little things without which my life in Delhi would have been tasteless and stagnant.
Again, I am back to the same option left, Wait and Watch what is in store.. :) :) So when our shopping was finally over and I pacified the hunger of my stomach that could devour even a Human had I not got food then,I bid bye to meet her next on her Sangeet Ceremony. She could sense the apprehension in my eyes and I felt like holding her and weeping like a child who longs for that favorite toy but doesn't know if it will get it or not. I wanted to pour out my heart, I am strong filled with patience. I know it will all be fine in the end. But I want all those good things to happen now.
She only said, "Enjoy this time as long as it lasts, bells are going to ring soon.Those who chose to leave were fools for they know not what a precious jewel they have lost".. Ahhh!! I don't know sweetheart if I am really that good or it is only your biased love for me that is talking.. :) :)
Whatever it is, I am super excited for the Sangeet and the Wedding for I get to adorn ethnics that I rarely wear otherwise..
Photographs and details to follow soon.....
With Love,
Megha S.
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